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The
Social Aspect of Women in Islam:
As
a Mother: (1)
The Quran elevates kindness to parents (especially mothers) to a status
second to the worship of God: {Your
Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind
to your parents. If one of them or both of them reach old age with
you, do not say to them a word of disrespect, or scold them, but say a
generous word to them. And act humbly to them in mercy, and say,
“My Lord, have mercy on them, since they cared for me when I was
small.” } (Quran, 17:23-24, see also 31:14, 46:15, and 29:8) (2)
Naturally, the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) specified this behavior for
his followers, rendering to mothers an unequalled status in human
relationships. A man came to the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and
said, “O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most
worthy of my good companionship?” The Prophet (pbuh) said:
{Your mother.} The man said, “Then who?” The Prophet (pbuh)
said: {Then your mother.} The man further asked, “Then
who?” The Prophet (pbuh) said: {Then your mother.} The man asked again, “Then
who?” The Prophet (pbuh) said: {Then your father.} As
a Sister in Faith (In General): (1)
According to the Prophet Muhammad’s (pbuh) sayings: {women are but shaqa’iq (twin halves
or sisters) of men.} This saying is a profound statement that
directly relates to the issue of human equality between the genders.
If the first meaning of the Arabic word shaqa’iq,
“twin halves,” is adopted, it means that the male is worth one half
(of society), while the female is worth the other half. If the
second meaning, “sisters,” is adopted, it implies the same. (2)
The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) taught
kindness, care, and respect toward women in general: {I commend you to
be good to women.} It is significant that such instruction of the
Prophet was among his final instructions and reminders in the farewell
pilgrimage address given shortly before his passing away. (3)
Modesty and social interaction: The parameters of proper modesty for
males and females (dress and behavior) are based on revelatory sources
(the Quran and prophetic sayings) and, as such, are regarded by
believing men and women as divinely-based guidelines with legitimate
aims and divine wisdom behind them. They are not male-imposed or
socially imposed restrictions. It is interesting to know that even
the Bible encourages women to cover their head: “If a woman does not
cover her head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a
disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should
cover her head.” (1 Corinthians 11:6).
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